112: Gracia Burnham | Hope After Being Held Hostage
Gracia Burnham | Hope After Being Held Hostage
Gracia grew up in a home that put the Lord and his Word at the center of their lives. She could sing hymns from memory even before she could read! When she was seven or eight, a caring Sunday school teacher explained to her the importance of committing her life to Christ. Not long after that she begged for the opportunity to be baptized.
Upon graduation from high school, Gracia chose to attend Calvary Bible College in Kansas City because of their music program. She graduated with a bachelor’s degree majoring in Christian education.
While she was at Calvary, a friendship flourished with a fellow student by the name of Martin Burnham. She and Martin were married in Kansas City in 1983. After several years of training with New Tribes Mission, they headed for the Philippines in 1986. For seventeen years Martin was a jungle pilot delivering mail, supplies, and encouragement to other missionaries. He also transported sick and injured patients to medical facilities. Gracia supported him whenever he was in the air by maintaining radio contact.
The Burnham’s three children, Jeffrey Paul, Melinda Joy, and Zachary Scott were born in the Philippines and home-schooled by their mother.
On May 27, 2001, while celebrating their 18th wedding anniversary at Dos Palmas Resort off Palawan Island, rebels from the Abu Sayyaf Group seized the Burnhams and several other guests of the resort, and took them as hostages to Basilan Island. In the ensuing 376 days of captivity they endured incredible hardship and emotional fatigue. On June 7, 2002, Martin was killed in a firefight between the Philippine military and the Abu Sayyaf Group. Gracia was wounded in the leg but was freed.
Gracia now resides in Rose Hill, Kansas. She is the author of the book In the Presence of My Enemies, which gives a gripping account of their year of terror in the Philippine jungle. In her second book, To Fly Again, Gracia reflects on the lessons and spiritual truths learned while in the jungle. She is a popular and engaging speaker in high demand at churches, colleges, and conferences across the United States. She is also the Founder and Director of The Martin & Gracia Burnham Foundation.
Gracia Burnham joins me to discuss on her missionary life with Martin, being held hostage by the Abu Sayyaf, and God’s provision during the 20 years since being freed from the jungle and losing Martin.
Questions Gracia and I Discuss:
- (4:38) You met and married Martin and eventually moved to the Philippines where you served as missionaries for 17 years. Tell us what led you to the Philippines and what ministry looked like for you and your family while there.
- (7:56) What makes you say Martin was born to fly in the jungle?
- (10:01) You and Martin decide to take a rare trip alone as a couple to celebrate your 18th wedding anniversary. Walk us through what happened on May 27, 2001 at the Dos Palmas resort.
- (12:17) Who were the Abu Sayyaf?
- (17:30) You and Martin, along with many other captives were held hostage by Abu Sayyaf, but the majority were released. Why did they keep you and Martin for another year?
- (19:51) How would you describe the conditions overall?
- (22:37) What thoughts about your kids would go through your mind during captivity?
- (24:27) Martin often was the one that would kind of pull you up when you were down.. What were some of the things he would say to point you back toward the Lord?
- (26:02) 911 put you and Martin in the forefront of people’s minds. What happened after 911?
- (29:56) How did the events of June 7, 2002 unfold?
- (37:52) What were those early years grieving the loss of Martin like?
- (39:37) What does life look like for Gracia 20 years after being held hostage?
- (42:20) What would you like to say to the woman listening who has experienced a tragic loss?
Quotes to Remember:
“Our job to run a good flight program and Martin wasn’t just an ordinary pilot. He was born to fly in the jungle. And he loved what he did.”
“Martin just knew how to get a loaded Cessna down on a short jungle strip and get it stopped in the next few hundred feet.”
“These militant Muslims stormed the resort. There was a banging on the door. Before Martin could even get to the door these three guys within M-16’s broke the door in and one took him right out. One of them came over to the bed and lowered his weapon at me and yelled, ‘Go go go!’. And I said, ‘No, no, no, I’m not dressed properly.’. They took me out to after I put on what I’d worn to the beach that night.”
“At the very beginning, they told Martin we will deal with you last. You’ll be political prisoners.”
“For the most part, we hiked. We moved all the time, because we were trying to stay in front of the Philippine military who were trying to rescue us.”
“Every once in a while, we would come to a place where we thought we were safe….and we would spend weeks. During those days [we were] totally bored. We were either exhausted or we were bored and witnessing the atrocities.”
“I found out right away that I couldn’t think about the kids a whole lot or I would become hysterical.”
“I think what happened in the States after 911 is our family and our loved ones. were able to call their congressmen and say, those are the people holding our loved ones.”
“We all want justice, right? Let’s go in and take care of this. And Jesus said, ‘Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you.’ It makes no sense, right? A lot of things Jesus said are contrary to what we think.”
“This huge gun battle, number 17 (we’ve been through 16 of these before), this Rambo style shooting up the camp… and before I could hit the ground…I was shot in the leg and kind of slid down the slick grass….I came to rest beside Martin and I looked over at him and he was bleeding from his chest. I knew from experience that leg wounds might heal, but chest wounds don’t.”
“I was trying to look dead, so they wouldn’t know I was alive and drag me back out into the jungle and this nightmare continue.”
“As they drug me away from Martin, I looked back at him and he was white. That’s when I knew for sure he was dead. They called the helicopter and it came and took me and some of the wounded soldiers away. We left Martin lane in the rain and I remember thinking this isn’t right. But at the same time, God gave me an overwhelming peace.”
“Before they put me under to fix my leg a sweet girl, a major said. ‘We want you to know that Martin’s here. We went back and picked up his body’.”
“God went before us every step of the way. And the kindness of the body of Christ, it was amazing. It was amazing to see.”
“I would tell that woman, ask everybody you know to pray for you, because when we pray, God works. God’s going tp work in your heart and God’s going to work in other’s hearts to come alongside you. So get people praying.”
“The advice he gave me was so good. He said, ‘Gracia, you’ve been through something awful. People want to help you, but they don’t know how, so you need to voice what you need. Tell people what you need, because some people are going to do things that are wrong. out of a good heart. Let them know that’s not what I need. This is what I need. And voice it with your mouth, tell people what you need’.”
“Do what Martin told me in the jungle. If you can’t handle today, Gracia, let’s go for an hour. Let’s trust God’s grace for an hour. If you can’t go for an hour, let’s trust God’s grace for a minute. Just trust his grace, for the little tiny bit of time that you can.”
- Book: In the Presence of My Enemies by Gracia Burnham
- Book: To Fly Again by Gracia Burnham
- Ethnos 360 (formerly New Tribes Mission)
- Song: Press On by Selah
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